A few months ago, I started going back into the office instead of working from home.  We aren’t being asked to be back in person, it was (still is) optional.  We have a new CEO so I thought it might be good to be there in person a bit while he got settled in. Going ….  Read More

I have been really bad at posting the stuff I write.  Most times I write it in Word and then transfer it here. I am getting it on “paper” but missing that next step……posting it here.  UGH!  My solution to this is going to be just starting here instead of double duty.  You might see ….  Read More

Netflix has a series called Love is Blind. It is in its second season. The concept is 14 men and 14 women “meet” each other and “date” without seeing the other. The women and men each live in their own quarters and dates are done in pods where they cannot see each other, but they ….  Read More

Stop apologizing! Last week, plus size super model Tess Holiday had a doctor’s visit. While in the waiting room, a woman told her she had a beautiful face and hair. Tess said thank you and smiled through her mask. Then (of course!) the woman said, “have you thought about losing weight?” I am paraphrasing a ….  Read More

Here comes the new year.  Yahoo! or maybe not? With the new year comes six gazillion diet/weight loss/exercise ads.  Everywhere you go. The television, the radio, billboards are all there to remind you that last year you didn’t quite hit that magic weight goal number and it is now time for you to try again.  ….  Read More

Let’s talk TV & Movies Stop for a minute and think about fat people on TV shows.  Can you name a few?  I can…… Mike & Molly- circles around a couple that meet b/c they are trying to lose weight. You know this is probably the only way for fat to meet that is acceptable. ….  Read More

I have been pretty serious lately so I thought it might be a good idea to do a more lighthearted post.  Let’s poke some fun at diet culture. Put a finger down if you: Have used spray “butter” on your toast, popcorn or veggies. Know just how bad your farts smell when you drink Slim ….  Read More

Before I get into this topic, I want to be sure everyone reading this knows that I am cool and support you in any efforts you are voluntarily taking to change the size your body. I just cannot engage in these behaviors anymore because I know where they lead.  You do you, my friend. BUT, ….  Read More

It’s been a LONG time since I have blogged. The thoughts have all been in my head so there is that…… As you can imagine, it is pretty interesting when someone who has a lot of anxiety keeps a shit ton of thoughts in their head.  Throw in an ED and wow….you have some fun. ….  Read More